Golf Lessons – Improve Your Life

Applying Golf Lessons to Your Life

Golf is a sport that any person can participate in from age eight to ninety-eight and beyond for a better and fuller quality of life. One of the best influences that a parent, guardian, or coach can have on a child is to place a golf club into their hands. You will be opening up a whole world of opportunities right into their hands that they can hold onto Golf and golf lessons are a great way to teach the important morals and positive characteristics of sportsmanship. Of all the characteristics that a person can possess in life, sportsmanship includes such characteristics as: humility, integrity, commitment, perseverance, respect, honor, honesty, fairness, sacrifice, responsibility, discipline, and a hard work ethic, to name a few.


Golf is a sport for the young and the young at heart

Sportsmanship is easier for most people to grasp and understand than terms like perseverance and integrity. Sportsmanship centers on athletes taking responsibility for their own actions. When athletes take responsibility for their actions, the separation between perception and reality closes. But the major benefit in golf is that it keeps results in perspective whether a win or loss, because the golfer realizes the lesson from the loss is used to build confidence and gain experience, the best golf lesson. The golfer understands that confidence is derived from the quiet strength, perseverance. President Calvin Coolidge had the best observation of the importance of perseverance: “Nothing in the world can take the place of perseverance.” President Coolidge in his quote stated that neither talent nor education could replace perseverance.

Process is More Important than Results

There is another lesson to convey to young people. Just as much attention is required for the short game, or details in life, as for the tee shot, the big event in life. Even with the odds stacked against a young person, the small things, performed consistently well, will allow for success. Golf also teaches that process is more important than results. The main theme in any golf lesson should be focused on processes that provide results. Several parallels can be drawn between sports and life to teach life skills. This is the reason that organized sports, and especially golf, should be encouraged at a young age to develop the important fine motor skills. The lessons learned from sports and golf can allow a young person to reach their potential in life. Perseverance and confidence are the best responses to any difficult situation, instead of feeling or showing resentment, anger, or seeking revenge.

Distinguishing between Positive and Negative Thoughts

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Mental part of the golf game

Finally, golf allows a person to approach golf and life as what one can do, not what one cannot do. I personally dislike the word “can’t.” The mind works off information, whether the information is positive or negative. Golf lessons, to have the most positive impact on the golfer, should be set up in a self-coaching format. Self-coaching directly influences how the subconscious mind works. The subconscious mind does not distinguish between positive and negative information or thoughts; it works off both. This is why golf lessons set up using a self-coaching-style have a more positive impact on the golfer in retaining information and instructions. Considering positive options is always better than dealing with negative limitations. Golf allows one to analyze options and assess the risks accurately on the course and in life. Success basically comes down to the ability to assess and manage risks and accept the results.

The ESPY Golf Swing Coach is formatted to provide a parent or guardian with the coaching fundamentals to be a child’s golf coach. It is also excellent for establishing an athletic curriculum in a homeschool setting. Please read more detail on setting up a homeschool golfing program

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